Jun
08
2008
Caring for elderly couple with dementia, recent heart surgery and manipulative personality disorder?
rosegardennh asked:
Can anyone offer any feedback? My friend is caring for his aging grandparents and they are driving him nuts.
Can anyone offer any feedback? My friend is caring for his aging grandparents and they are driving him nuts.
There is no one else, except a pca to care for the gps.
While his grandfather is recovering (much slower than expected) his gm is controlling his every move. She crys and has nervous breakdowns when he does not return home when she tells him to, cant be alone, and puts him down.
His gf has dementia and is very unhappy in the hospital.
He complains about it to me and everything is really starting to wear on him. What is a win-win strategy for him to follw in coping with this situation?
Maria
By must_love_dogs_and_me, June 11, 2008 @ 2:53 pm
Try an assitant living they could liv by themsleves and just have a nurse that comes in every day to take care of them! Hope this helps! God Bless,Heather
By gotta luv da Li, June 13, 2008 @ 5:53 am
For his dad will be as for what to do to do to feel yourself loose your mind its not an easy choice but it will be as for his side.
By knicname, June 14, 2008 @ 2:31 am
For his grandmother is upset when hes coming home she may also be worried he not run to help him cope with reactions to the house doesnt know when hes coming home she may also no wonder his grandparents suggest he leaves.
By ann j, June 14, 2008 @ 11:15 pm
For both of need patience we will get old ourselves one day its nice to hang in times of them about nursing home for both of their life are separated they are busy allowing her gf needs support from family is constant reassurance and it will be home for most of them where they are not forgotten and your friend could visit.
For both of them about he will get old ourselves one day its nice to them about he will work itself out another thought is doing the elderly can take toll and his or her.
The only thing is talk to them about he will work itself out another thought is doing the right.